by Kimberly Hill | Nov 11, 2021 | Dating, Holidays, Podcasts
Dating during the holidays can bring up a whole host of anxiety-provoking thoughts that summer dating may not. Should I invite my date to the family dinner? Do we need to have the talk? How serious is this getting? How much should I spend on a Christmas gift for my date? All thoughts that might go through your head if you start dating someone new during the holiday season.
In today’s episode, I share with you six things you may want to consider if you’re dating during the holidays. And yes, it can be an amazing time to get to know someone; just make sure you’ve considered these six things first!
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by Kimberly Hill | Nov 10, 2021 | Blogs, Dating, Holidays
Simple reminders to keep in mind while you date over the holidays
The holiday season can be an exciting and overwhelming time. And if you’re dating, sometimes it can get a little confusing knowing what you should or shouldn’t do. If you are worried you might take a misstep while dating during the holidays, here are a few guidelines to support your holiday dating:
- Don’t feel pressured to include them in your family plans. Inviting a date to meet your family is something you should do when you’re ready for it, not because the holidays create an added layer of pressure. Invite them in you are ready to take the next step and have been wanting to introduce them to your family for a while.
- Don’t go overboard on gifts. Have you ever heard of the term love-bombing? It’s an attempt to influence a person by going over-board with attention, affection and gifts. Make sure you and the individual you’re dating establish if gifts are appropriate. It’s always nice to start with something small and fun that lets them know you’ve been listening to what they like.
- Don’t settle for someone because it’s the holidays. While it’s tempting to have someone to cuddle up with by the fire. Cuddling should not take priority over compatibility, honesty and trust. Make sure you are dating intentionally, not for convenience.
- Take it easy on the alcohol. While the rum and egg nog might be flowing, or the midnight champagne may make an appearance, take it easy on the booze. According to a 2014 study by Plenty of Fish, 48.8 percent of singles reported consuming two to three drinks on a first date. If you don’t drink, you might wonder when a good time to bring this up is. The best time to tell someone you’re dating that you don’t drink is as soon as the conversation about alcohol comes up naturally.
- Don’t stop dating. If you are genuine in your search for love, the holidays can be a great time to date. Fun events, local things happening in your town, and opportunities to meet people who want to embrace the holiday spirit. Make sure you don’t put too much pressure on finding someone by the end of the year. This kind of pressure can increase your dating anxiety, so move slowly, enjoy the process and don’t get caught up in the timing of meeting someone.
Happy Holiday Dating!
Kimberly Hill is a leading Dating & Relationship Coach For Men, and Host of The Self-Confidence Project Podcast. You can follow her on Instagram. For more information, go to www.kimberlyninahill.com.
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by Kimberly Hill | Oct 19, 2021 | Dating, Podcasts
If you or someone you know is a little bit introverted, or maybe even shy, dating can feel more frustrating for you than it does for your extroverted best friend. That’s why in this week’s episode I want to share with you five valuable tips for dating if you are introverted, and what you can do to make your experience smoother, more satisfying and bursting with confidence.
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by Kimberly Hill | Oct 7, 2021 | Dating, Divorce, Podcasts
Divorce is no easy feat. It’s complicated, emotional and draining for anyone who experiences it. But just because we had one relationship end, it doesn’t mean that we cannot move forward and create a better union. That’s why in this week’s podcast, I’m going to share with you 4 useful tips you need to keep in mind when you begin dating again. If you’ve been divorced recently or ended a serious long-term relationship, this episode is for you.
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by Kimberly Hill | Oct 5, 2021 | Blogs, Dating, Divorce
How to date successfully after marriage, especially if it’s been a while
Divorce is known to be one of the most stressful events in someone’s life. And one can understand why. The event itself is an emotional whirlwind, not to mention financially stressful. If kids are involved, it’s just plain complicated.
But the start of the divorce is not where the stress starts. On average, an individual spends two years thinking about divorce before taking action on it And when we are checking out of a relationship, it’s not usually a joyful time.
The whole process can make you re-think everything you know about love and relationships. But it doesn’t mean that a healthy relationship is not in the cards for you. It is, and it can be.
If you’re ready to meet someone new, here are some important areas to consider before you sign up for dating on Tinder, eHarmony or hit the streets in search of a new beau.
Get support and do the inner work to heal from your divorce
The healing process will look different for everyone. It’s important to take time to process what happened and get back to a healthy emotional state before you begin dating again. Only you can determine when you’re truly ready. During this time, it’s important to reclaim your interests and begin re-building healthy friendships.
Get clear on what you’re looking for in a partner
Before you create a dating profile and sign up for the hottest dating app, consider what you’re actually searching for. You’ll improve your chances of matching and meeting with the right types of people if you’re mindful and intentional about it. Great relationships are based on shared values, so understand what truly matters to you before you start your search.
Understand the kind of relationship you want to have
Since your last relationship ended, you may want to think about the type of relationship you’re interested in creating. Want more kids? Say so. Looking for a partner who enjoys adventures and travel? Be clear about that too. Consider the kind of relationship you want to have and make sure that’s what you’re attracting.
Set boundaries around the use of apps
If this is your first time using dating apps, or you’re exploring it again, you’re going to need to have some boundaries in place. While dating apps can be a great way to meet potential partners, they also can stress us out and take our time away from other healthy pursuits. Don’t rely strictly on dating apps. There are other ways to meet great people and you should know how to approach women in public as well. Make sure you know when to put your phone down so you’re not spending hours mindlessly scrolling or falling behind in other areas of life. Dating apps can be addictive, like all forms of social media, so be conscious of how you use them and what’s going to work best for you. Are you planning to go on dates every day of the week? For single dads, what about during the days and weekends you have your kids? Make sure you know when you’re available so you’re not feeling pulled in one hundred directions.
To your success in dating,
Kimberly
Kimberly Hill is a leading Dating & Relationship Coach For Men, and Host of The Self-Confidence Project Podcast. You can follow her on Instagram @kimberlyninahill. For more information, go to www.kimberlyninahill.com.
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by Kimberly Hill | Oct 2, 2021 | Dating, Podcasts
Traver Boehm knows men. How they think, what’s behind their behavior, and most importantly — their unique challenges in the modern landscape.
Traver is the founder of the UNcivilized Men’s Movement, the fastest-growing men’s movement in the world. He is the author of Today I Rise, and Man UNcivilized as well as a two-time TEDx speaker, men’s coach and podcaster.
Drawing upon an eclectic background ranging from professional bodyguarding and Mixed Martial Arts to a Master’s Degree in Traditional Chinese Medicine and meditation, Traver counsels men, women, and couples on how to better understand men’s mental health and relationship difficulties.
Although he’s not quite sure how to feel about the title, he has been dubbed, “The Man Whisperer” as he has the unique ability to speak to men in a way they can hear and understand.
In 2016 after losing a pregnancy, his marriage, and his business partnership all within weeks of each other, he created a radical year-long social experiment to answer the questions, “Who am I and who am I as a man?”
Listen to today’s episode, where we talk about what men are needing today and how you might be able to find it for yourself.
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