by Kimberly Hill | Dec 7, 2022 | Dating, Divorce, Podcasts
It’s really common after a breakup to start dating again and feel overwhelmed. The dating landscape has changed, we have new online dating apps popping up each week. Our culture is changing in terms of what women and men are wanting from relationships. In today’s show, I share four common mistakes men are making when they start dating after divorce or after the end of a long-term relationship. Find out if you’re making any of these dating mistakes. And hey! If you enjoyed this episode, please share and leave me a review.
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by Kimberly Hill | Mar 1, 2022 | ADHD, Divorce, Podcasts
Join Ben and me talk about dealing with an ADHD diagnosis, life after divorce and why we behave the way we do.
Ben Redmond is a coach, therapist, and men’s work leader who used to be a public school teacher.
While his coaching practice focuses on guiding parents of children with difficult behaviours, much of his experience is working with kids and adults diagnosed with ADHD, ODD, born polydrug addicted, PTSD, anxiety, and depression.
Ben has ADHD, is divorced, and peacefully co-parents his two girls with his ex-wife. Ben’s passion is in guiding people through healing, loss, and transition into connection with themselves, their families, community, and the life they desire.
You can learn more about Ben and his work here.
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by Kimberly Hill | Oct 7, 2021 | Dating, Divorce, Podcasts
Divorce is no easy feat. It’s complicated, emotional and draining for anyone who experiences it. But just because we had one relationship end, it doesn’t mean that we cannot move forward and create a better union. That’s why in this week’s podcast, I’m going to share with you 4 useful tips you need to keep in mind when you begin dating again. If you’ve been divorced recently or ended a serious long-term relationship, this episode is for you.
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by Kimberly Hill | Oct 5, 2021 | Blogs, Dating, Divorce
How to date successfully after marriage, especially if it’s been a while
Divorce is known to be one of the most stressful events in someone’s life. And one can understand why. The event itself is an emotional whirlwind, not to mention financially stressful. If kids are involved, it’s just plain complicated.
But the start of the divorce is not where the stress starts. On average, an individual spends two years thinking about divorce before taking action on it And when we are checking out of a relationship, it’s not usually a joyful time.
The whole process can make you re-think everything you know about love and relationships. But it doesn’t mean that a healthy relationship is not in the cards for you. It is, and it can be.
If you’re ready to meet someone new, here are some important areas to consider before you sign up for dating on Tinder, eHarmony or hit the streets in search of a new beau.
Get support and do the inner work to heal from your divorce
The healing process will look different for everyone. It’s important to take time to process what happened and get back to a healthy emotional state before you begin dating again. Only you can determine when you’re truly ready. During this time, it’s important to reclaim your interests and begin re-building healthy friendships.
Get clear on what you’re looking for in a partner
Before you create a dating profile and sign up for the hottest dating app, consider what you’re actually searching for. You’ll improve your chances of matching and meeting with the right types of people if you’re mindful and intentional about it. Great relationships are based on shared values, so understand what truly matters to you before you start your search.
Understand the kind of relationship you want to have
Since your last relationship ended, you may want to think about the type of relationship you’re interested in creating. Want more kids? Say so. Looking for a partner who enjoys adventures and travel? Be clear about that too. Consider the kind of relationship you want to have and make sure that’s what you’re attracting.
Set boundaries around the use of apps
If this is your first time using dating apps, or you’re exploring it again, you’re going to need to have some boundaries in place. While dating apps can be a great way to meet potential partners, they also can stress us out and take our time away from other healthy pursuits. Don’t rely strictly on dating apps. There are other ways to meet great people and you should know how to approach women in public as well. Make sure you know when to put your phone down so you’re not spending hours mindlessly scrolling or falling behind in other areas of life. Dating apps can be addictive, like all forms of social media, so be conscious of how you use them and what’s going to work best for you. Are you planning to go on dates every day of the week? For single dads, what about during the days and weekends you have your kids? Make sure you know when you’re available so you’re not feeling pulled in one hundred directions.
To your success in dating,
Kimberly
Kimberly Hill is a leading Dating & Relationship Coach For Men, and Host of The Self-Confidence Project Podcast. You can follow her on Instagram @kimberlyninahill. For more information, go to www.kimberlyninahill.com.
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by Kimberly Hill | Sep 9, 2021 | Divorce, Podcasts
Should I get divorced? How might this impact my work and friendships? What will my children think? These are all valid questions to be asking.
Divorce is not a lighthearted decision that one makes. It has serious impacts on your emotional well-being, finances and children, amongst other areas.
Today I’m bringing on a special guest, Jude Sandvall, to talk about divorce and the emotions that come along with it.
Jude is a father of 3 teenage girls and shares part of his personal story and why he supports other men to process the turbulent and emotional impact of divorce.
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